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Gossip & Giggles with T!
I have all these big dreams like opening a café, having my own farm (or ranch as I like to call it haha) and running my own events company. It’s actually quite scary come to think of how big these dreams actually are and often when I think of it my initial thought is ‘Wow, I am crazy; like I would be able to do that.’
It’s thoughts like that you have to ignore you can’t let the negative thoughts stop you from dreaming big and doing what you love, because if you do you won’t be happy. You have to ignore them OR listen to what your head is saying and use it to drive you and make you work harder.
You can do whatever you want to do, you just have to believe in yourself and work hard. Don’t let factors like people, time or money stop you – You only need the people in your life that motivate you to do well and support you as a person, otherwise they are going to constantly get you down, knock your confidence in doing well and make you question the decisions you are making. You are of course bound to come across people who won’t want you to do well, for a number of different reasons. But just like those negative thoughts ignore those people or use what they say to make you work harder!
Time is something that’s just passing us by. The fact that Christmas is like 17 weeks away is a perfect example of how quick this year is going. You can not wait around for things to come to you, because time is not waiting for you. If time is the reason you aren’t doing what you enjoy, then you’re wrong. You need to make sure you are making time for the things you enjoy, whether it only 15 minutes or a couple of hours. Don’t waste your time!
Money is something that unfortunately you can not change, everything costs money. But what you have to remember is that you don’t need the best when you’re just starting out. You will just be learning, finding your way. It’s like buying an Audi R8 for your first car, you would be silly!
At the beginning of every project there is going to be a lot of trial and error. You are bound to make a lot of mistakes, but don’t ever give up. Once you give up you are back to square one, and you are no closer to your dreams than you are today. You have to overcome the mistakes and problems you come across, Even if it seems almost impossible to solve the problem, there is always a way. Once you do you will be a step closer to that dream of yours, So don’t ever give up.
Ellen Johnson Sirleaf once said – “The size of your dreams must always exceed your current capacity to achieve them. If your dreams do not scare you, they are not big enough.”
But, for now that is all!
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– T xo